Healing After Divorce
45 Things You Need To Know About How To Get Over A Divorce
This is a comprehensive list of how to get over a divorce. It contains wisdom and links to more information from a range of sources about dealing with divorce.
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The Differences Between Men & Women During The Divorce Process
By knowing this about your ex, you’ll be able to make it through your divorce more calmly. An interesting thing happened during one of the divorce recovery workshops I lead. One of the male participants brought up the book His Needs Her Needs by Willard F. Harley, Jr. This participant shared the lists of…
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11 Struggles Only The Newly Divorced Understand
Being newly divorced can feel like you’re living in the Twilight Zone. Being newly separated or divorced is a strange place. It’s filled not only with all the physical and logistical changes of living alone, but also with a strange cocktail of emotions that seem to fluctuate wildly. One moment you’re heartbroken. The next you’re…
Read More You May Be Mad At Your Ex, But Don’t Be An Exhole
They’re not your spouse anymore, so stop cyber-stalking them! An exhole is an ex who acts like an a**hole. In my role as a divorce coach, I’ve heard all kinds of stories from my clients and family law attorneys. Many times, the stories a client tells me are about their ex behaving like an exhole,…
Read More Divorce Recovery: Why You Need To Stop Listening To Your BFF
Coping with a divorce is difficult – make sure you are talking to the right people for support. I cringe whenever someone tries to comfort their friend who is going through a heart-wrenching divorce by lying to them. Even though the lie is told with love and without malice, it’s still destructive. Without meaning to,…
Read More Healing From Divorce: Overcoming Your Loneliness
One of the hardest parts of healing from divorce is overcoming the soul-sucking loneliness. Here is a simple way to do just that.
Read More Hurt Because Your Spouse Is Dating During Divorce?
It can feel like yet another betrayal when your spouse is dating during divorce. Here are some facts to consider to help you cope.
Read More Dealing With Divorce Loneliness? Hug Yourself Happy
Divorce loneliness can be overwhelming – but it doesn’t have to be crippling. Your divorce will probably be one of the most intense emotional experiences you’ll ever face. It sure was for me. I had a full spectrum of extraordinarily strong emotions hit one after another in an often confusing and frightening way. Sound familiar?…
Read More Thank You, Pope Francis
Pope Francis’ statement is too late for me, but I’m OK with that now. In August 2002, my divorce was final. When the judge signed the decree my immediate reaction was happiness. I thought I was free! I thought I would be happy (finally) because of a little ink on a piece of paper. Oh,…
Read More The Only Real Shortcut To Healing From Divorce
It takes courage and determination, but you can heal from your divorce. And here’s a shortcut.
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