Stop letting the emotional roller-coaster of your breakup rule your life!
Divorce is stressful! Breakups are stressful!
We all know this. You want to move as quickly as possible from heartbreak to happiness. But happiness probably seems nearly impossible right now.
If I were to step into your shoes for a minute I bet you feel a little bit like this:
- Some moments you feel disoriented and want so much for things to be "normal" again
- At other times you’re worried and unsure of what the future holds
- Often you’re mad… maybe even rageful and many other more colorful words
- Then you’re sad, depressed and feel incredibly alone
- In the end, you might even wonder if you're still sane… and have no idea if, or when this parade of emotions is going to end.
I get it. I've been EXACTLY where you are right now. When my marriage ended in 2002 I struggled with exactly the same feelings. I had no idea when things would get better and what it would take for my life to feel “normal” again.
Being on the other side of a divorce, I can confidently tell you that you will get past this; there will be a time in the not so distant future when you will start to see the glimmer of hope that you can be happy again. I know because I've done it myself and I have also helped hundreds of other people get from misery to contentment and even joy too.
And I can help you too.
The truth is that the road through a divorce or breakup is laced with many different sets of feelings. All of these act as landmines to your sanity. Some are BIG and others are microscopic, but each one impacts how you heal and how you ultimately feel about yourself.
Why does this matter?
Because if you look down the road, there will be a moment in your life when you’re ready for love again. A time when you say to yourself, “I have forgiven myself (and maybe even my ex) and I want to invite love back in”. Can you imagine that day? I can. And I want that day for you.
But in order to get there, you have to work through the ending of this relationship. It’s through this process that you open your heart again to the possibility of a great love. Consider that your heart has only so much room in it; if a great deal of that space is taken up with being mad, hurt or upset with your ex, that room won’t be available to love another. You have to clear out the old stuff and hurt feelings to make room in your heart for a new love.
And you can do this in one of two ways: with your eyes open or with your eyes closed.
What do I mean by this? For some people, they are too embarrassed, ashamed or afraid to look inside and really feel their pain. They hide from it, deny it and withdraw from it. But the pain doesn’t go away, it just sits there patiently for a moment to show itself. If you’re someone like this, maybe you cry uncontrollably at a sad movie or you get ragefully angry at a car driving too slowly down your street. This is called misplaced feelings and it’s happening because your emotions must come out.
If you won’t make the space for them, they will wait until life gives them their moment. And whether you like it or not, they will come out.
That’s one path.
The other is more elegant, more refined, more honest and more real… and that is the natural path of feeling and emoting your feelings as they come up naturally in the moments of your breakup and/or divorce.
If you want to understand what’s going on for you, my book can help. On the Road from Heartbreak to Happiness is designed to be your first step back to a "normal" life. As you work through it, you will firmly place yourself on the path towards a healthy future and you will start living the BEST life imaginable for you.
Here’s how it works. After purchasing On the Road from Heartbreak to Happiness you will receive in your inbox a daily message that describes a different piece of the emotional puzzle along with instructions and tips for how to work through those feelings.
Now since there’s no predicting what you’ll feel on a given day, these tips work like an instruction manual for how to navigate your feelings as they arise and prepare you for moments in the future so you’re armed with the tools to handle whatever comes your way.
Consider this example: one day in the not so distant future your child will have a birthday and your ex will want to participate in the celebration. How does that make you feel? What if he or she brings their new significant other? How does that make you feel? On some level, it is predictable that your ex will move on, therefore it’s something you will need to learn how to handle.
This book will help you work through the feelings brought up by predictable events like this one and allow you to move through them without getting stuck in unnecessary grief or anger. It will also:
- Walk you through the complete array of emotions you’re likely to experience after your breakup
- Give you expert tips and techniques to do on your own (or with your coach/counselor) to help you move more quickly through the pain and uncertainty of your breakup
- Help you take the 1st steps to creating your positive new future
- Arrive in your inbox every day, so you won't have to go through your divorce alone
You can begin your journey of healing from your breakup with On the Road from Heartbreak to Happiness TODAY!
The cost for On the Road from Heartbreak to Happiness is only $34.99. Simply click the "Purchase Now" button and complete the order process.
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I am so excited Karen finally created On the Road from Heartbreak to Happiness! Having been through divorce myself, I would love to have had Heartbreak to Happiness as a daily resource! This is not just a motivational guide. Karen uses each day as an opportunity to simply and easily help people move through the divorce transition with gentle reminders, uplifting words, easy to follow tasks and an occasional kick in the you know what, to get you successfully to the other side of divorce. It's like having your wisest and most loving friend talk to you, support you and help you - every day!
The Well Blended Family
On the Road from Heartbreak to Happiness is a must-have for anyone going through divorce!
The messages will help you through your daily ups and downs; it is like having a friend there with you who holds your hand and walks with you towards that bright light at the end of the dark tunnel. This friend, Karen, will pull you, push you, sometimes kick you ... but that is exactly what you need to move on.
I went through a very tough time when getting divorced and I wish I could have been holding Karen Finn's hand back then.
The Relationship Coaches
Karen, I feel like you really, seriously tapped into exactly what space I am in at this moment. All day, loneliness. I'm the one in the cave peering out the window with the sad face. I love your emails, thank you for reminding me that I am exactly where I am supposed to be.
Your inspirational messages I received were great.
Hi, Karen, I just wanted to let you know how much I'm enjoying the daily e-mails I'm getting from you. They have been very helpful and right on target so often. I'm so glad to have that resource!