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Getting Divorced? Don’t Be Nice

December 18, 2015

Don’t beat around the bush when asking for divorce. Sheila had been thinking about it for months and she had talked to her girlfriends about it. They were shocked by her admission — she wasn’t sure she loved her husband Jeff any more. Her friends were shocked because, even after all these years, Jeff seemed to be…

Is Kindness The Key To Coping With Divorce?

December 16, 2015

Most advice for coping with divorce is about just making it through, but with kindness you could heal a whole lot faster and make your whole world better too.

3 Ways To Make It Through The Holidays When Your Marriage Is Over!

December 14, 2015

It’s time to suck it up, for the kids! It’s the holidays and you think your marriage is over. (Unfortunate timing, right?) This is supposed to be a time when families come together. When they feel especially loving and close. Except that’s not what you’re feeling. Being close to your spouse is definitely not what…

The 5 Things Women Want From Their Man

December 8, 2015

You might be surprised at how familiar these 5 things are. Most men see women as being completely different from them and therefore almost impossible to understand – much less please. It’s this great divide in understanding that keeps many men from having the relationship they really want with their woman (and their woman really…

11 Struggles Only The Newly Divorced Understand

November 30, 2015

Being newly divorced can feel like you’re living in the Twilight Zone. Being newly separated or divorced is a strange place. It’s filled not only with all the physical and logistical changes of living alone, but also with a strange cocktail of emotions that seem to fluctuate wildly. One moment you’re heartbroken. The next you’re…

Divorced? Here’s How To Find The REAL Love Of Your Life

November 19, 2015

Dating after divorce can be terrifying, but by using both your heart and your head you just might find the REAL love of your life this time.

You May Be Mad At Your Ex, But Don’t Be An Exhole

November 16, 2015

They’re not your spouse anymore, so stop cyber-stalking them! An exhole is an ex who acts like an a**hole. In my role as a divorce coach, I’ve heard all kinds of stories from my clients and family law attorneys. Many times, the stories a client tells me are about their ex behaving like an exhole,…

17 Healthy Signs You’re Handling Your Divorce Like A Boss!

November 16, 2015

A childhood claim is the key to divorce recovery. Seriously! “You’re not the boss of me!” is a familiar refrain from the playground. Remember shouting it at one of your friends when they got a little too bossy? Well, believe it or not, “You’re not the boss of me!” is a fantastic thing to say…

Divorced? 3 Tips For Taking The Horrible Out Of Your Holidays

November 9, 2015

Divorce and the holidays can be a recipe for misery. But by following these 3 tips you might have more fun this holiday season than you expect.

6 Tough Questions You Must Ask BEFORE Leaving Your Marriage

October 30, 2015

Deciding if leaving your marriage is the right thing to do is gut-wrenching. Ask yourself these 6 questions to help you make up your mind.