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5 Reasons You’re An Easy Target Post-Divorce

October 28, 2015

If you’re newly divorced, beware of these 5 ways you’re an easy target for users and manipulators. The prospect of dating after divorce is exciting! It is also pretty terrifying because women newly back out there are easy targets for players and manipulators. I felt all the thrill and terror about dating after my divorce…

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4 Simple Tips For Overcoming The Misery Of Your Divorce

October 22, 2015

Overcoming the misery of divorce can seem almost impossible. By realizing that the misery is really a combination of emotions, you can recover more quickly.

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Divorce Recovery: Why You Need To Stop Listening To Your BFF

October 19, 2015

Coping with a divorce is difficult – make sure you are talking to the right people for support. I cringe whenever someone tries to comfort their friend who is going through a heart-wrenching divorce by lying to them. Even though the lie is told with love and without malice, it’s still destructive. Without meaning to,…

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4 Reasons You MUST Tell Your Spouse You Cheated

October 19, 2015

Even if you’re scared, coming clean with your spouse is the best thing for both of you if you want to save your marriage. Not everyone who has an affair set out with the intention to cheat. Most affairs just sort of happen. That’s probably how you wound up in this situation – by accident.…

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Take More Responsibility For Your Breakup

September 28, 2015

It might seem counter-intuitive, but taking responsibility is the best way to get over it and move on. Breakups and divorces hurt – a lot. About all you can think about doing is making the pain stop. You might try drinking, going out with whomever you can and blaming your ex to make you feel…

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Angry couple in white bed not looking at each other. Six reasons couples do go to bed angry, on purpose.

6 Reasons Happy Couples DO Go To Bed Angry (On Purpose!)

September 28, 2015

Fighting late into the night is just disaster waiting to happen. Sometimes what we take as common sense is really just a bunch of pie-in-the-sky crap! I call it crap because it’s too idealistic or just ignorant of how people’s minds and bodies really work. For example, take the whole idea that a couple should…

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Healing From Divorce: Overcoming Your Loneliness

September 9, 2015

One of the hardest parts of healing from divorce is overcoming the soul-sucking loneliness. Here is a simple way to do just that.

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Unhappy Marriage? Here’s How to Make It Better (Part 2)

September 4, 2015

You don’t need to be stuck in an unhappy marriage. Here are some ideas for you to make things better.

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I Stopped Sleeping With My Husband To Save My Marriage

August 28, 2015

Happy couples make their own rules! The idea that “opposites attract” is cute in the beginning of relationships, but once you’re married or together long-term, those differences soon drive you mad. My husband and I are certainly a case of opposites attract — especially when it comes to sleeping. He’s a night owl, who loves to…

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Hurt Because Your Spouse Is Dating During Divorce?

August 19, 2015

It can feel like yet another betrayal when your spouse is dating during divorce. Here are some facts to consider to help you cope.

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