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Divorce Made You Angry? How To Move On
Three steps for leaving your divorce anger behind you. When my ex-husband and I decided to divorce in 2002, we came to the decision rationally just like we’d come to most decisions in our marriage. Being two rational human beings who had never fought, we thought it would be in our best interest to save…
Read MoreFixing What Causes the Most Divorce Pain
Divorce pain is gut-wrenching. It’s runs deeper than anyone who hasn’t been divorced can ever know. Discover the best way you can decrease your pain.
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Knowing Your Limits is Critical for Successful Divorce Recovery
When you’re going through your divorce recovery, you’ve got to be willing to test your limits and allow yourself to grow. Otherwise you risk being miserable.
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3 Tips for Dealing with Divorce
When you’re dealing with divorce it’s like your world has been turned upside down and inside out. These 3 tips will help you make sense of your world again.
Read MoreGetting Divorced: Are You Still Lovable?
A celebrity break-up can help you discover that you are definitely still lovable. I recently read an article ridiculing Robin Thick for giving his estranged wife, Paula Patton, gifts and public apologies to woo her back. What I found so interesting is the obvious derision the author had for his attempts. Now, don’t get me…
Read MoreWhat Are You Bringing to Your Divorce?
Whatever you bring with you to your divorce will color your experience. Make sure you’re bringing what you want to have! My husband and I are going through the process of selling our home and buying a new one. If you’ve ever gone through the sale and purchase of a home, you know how stressful…
Read More Ready To Get Over Your Divorce? Quit Playing This Tricky Game
The faster you move past blame the faster you’ll heal from your divorce. I was 8 when my family moved from Toledo, OH to San Jose, CA. I loved the adventure of being in a new place, being able to walk to school, the road-side stands selling bing cherries and I really loved cable TV.…
Read MoreSpecial Occasions Can Still Be Special After You’re Divorced
Special occasions after divorce are often sources of worry and upset. But they don’t have to be! Learn tips for keeping special occasions fun after divorce.
Read MoreGetting Divorced? Why You May Still Need A Family Therapist
Think you can only call in a family therapist to piece back together your relationship? Think again. When you got married, you created a family — a family of two. Over the years your family may have expanded to include a goldfish, a dog or cat, and kids. What if you you decide to get divorced?…
Read More Pesky Divorce Lies You Must Stop Telling Yourself
You are so much stronger than you think. “I abdicated responsibility for myself.” That’s what I heard every time I looked in the mirror. “I abdicated responsibility for myself.” I heard it again anytime I allowed myself even a brief break from being busy — way too busy. “I abdicated responsibility for myself. I abdicated responsibility…
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