- January 14, 2016
Make the story of your divorce recovery bittersweet and successful instead of just bitter.
Divorce is tough. The worst part of it is that there's loss after loss after loss.
You've lost your marriage.
You've lost your dreams of "happily ever after."
You've lost being married to one person for your entire life.
You've lost having your kids grow up in an intact family.
You've lost being able to see your kids growing up on a daily basis.
You've lost the conveniences that come with marriage - one home, shared responsibilities, shared parenting, etc.
These losses are only the tip of the iceberg of things you say goodbye to when your marriage ends. Divorce recovery is a tale of grief.
But the losses don't tell the whole story. They just set the stage - a stage of destruction.
It's the rest of the story that's the most powerful, the most affirming and the most wonderful. The rest of the story is about creating and rising from the ashes. It's a talk of you creating your life into something better than it was - a life you love even more. (Yes, it's possible.)
The trouble is you're probably not feeling all that…