Unhappy Marriage?

Father, mother, & son opening Christmas presents on couch, 3 ways to make it through the holidays when your marriage is over.

3 Ways To Make It Through The Holidays When Your Marriage Is Over!

By Dr. Karen Finn / December 14, 2015

It’s time to suck it up, for the kids! It’s the holidays and you think your marriage is over. (Unfortunate timing, right?) This is supposed to be a time when families come together. When they feel especially loving and close. Except that’s not what you’re feeling. Being close to your spouse is definitely not what…

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Older woman looks up lovingly at her husband. These are the 5 things women want from their man

The 5 Things Women Want From Their Man

By Dr. Karen Finn / December 8, 2015

You might be surprised at how familiar these 5 things are. Most men see women as being completely different from them and therefore almost impossible to understand – much less please. It’s this great divide in understanding that keeps many men from having the relationship they really want with their woman (and their woman really…

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Man in blue shirt sits at a counter with head in his hand as he contemplates the tough questions you must ask yourself before leaving your marriage.

6 Tough Questions You Must Ask BEFORE Leaving Your Marriage

By Dr. Karen Finn / October 30, 2015

Deciding if leaving your marriage is the right thing to do is gut-wrenching. Ask yourself these 6 questions to help you make up your mind.

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Angry couple in white bed not looking at each other. Six reasons couples do go to bed angry, on purpose.

6 Reasons Happy Couples DO Go To Bed Angry (On Purpose!)

By Dr. Karen Finn / September 28, 2015

Fighting late into the night is just disaster waiting to happen. Sometimes what we take as common sense is really just a bunch of pie-in-the-sky crap! I call it crap because it’s too idealistic or just ignorant of how people’s minds and bodies really work. For example, take the whole idea that a couple should…

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Unhappy Marriage? Here’s How to Make It Better (Part 2)

By Dr. Karen Finn / September 4, 2015

You don’t need to be stuck in an unhappy marriage. Here are some ideas for you to make things better.

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I Stopped Sleeping With My Husband To Save My Marriage

By Dr. Karen Finn / August 28, 2015

Happy couples make their own rules! The idea that “opposites attract” is cute in the beginning of relationships, but once you’re married or together long-term, those differences soon drive you mad. My husband and I are certainly a case of opposites attract — especially when it comes to sleeping. He’s a night owl, who loves to…

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This is the sign you've been looking for neon sign.

Looking For Signs You Should Get A Divorce?

By Dr. Karen Finn / August 18, 2015

These are the signs you should get a divorce instead of trying to save your marriage.

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Unhappy Marriage? Here’s How to Make It Better (Part 1)

By Dr. Karen Finn / August 12, 2015

It’s not easy, but you can start to change your unhappy marriage into something better all by yourself. Start here.

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Angry man in blue smoke who finally understands the signs you should get a divorce.

3 Definite Signs You Should Get A Divorce

By Dr. Karen Finn / August 10, 2015

Yes, there really are some circumstances that are signs you should get a divorce.

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Man pointing at the reader in accusation.

5 Brutal Signs You Are One Seriously LOUSY Spouse

By Dr. Karen Finn / June 26, 2015

Your partner isn’t the problem, sweetheart … YOU are. A marriage takes work — lots of it — and from each spouse. And the rewards for your effort are: happiness, contentment, peace, and, of course, loving and feeling loved.  But, what happens when you begin to question whether the hard work is worth it? What happens when the bad…

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Man and woman sitting side by side at desk with a gavel smiling at camera as he puts a wedding ring on her finger. Is Marriage good for your health? Maybe, Maybe not.

Is Marriage Good for Your Health? Maybe. Maybe Not.

By Dr. Karen Finn / December 29, 2014

The article “Why marriage can be good for your health” doesn’t even begin to tell the whole story. TimesOnline recently published an article “Why marriage can be good for your health”. After reading the article, I believe the conclusions they reach and the research they cite may not tell the whole story. The article looked…

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Arguing couple wondering what is compromise.

Compromise Isn’t A Contest

By Dr. Karen Finn / August 19, 2013

What is compromise in a relationship? It shouldn’t be about someone always giving in and the other always getting their way. Learn more about what compromise really is.

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