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Bi In Hetero Marriage: Am I Cheating If I Have Homosexual Sex?
The answer is definitely … it depends. Outside of the legal definition, marriage is a commitment that two people make to each other. For most couples the commitment includes monogamy. But what happens if a bisexual person enters into a marriage with a heterosexual person and still wants to have homosexual sex? Will they be…
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Dating – It Is Not Always About Finding That Perfect Person
There are other truly amazing reasons to date besides getting hitched again. I can’t tell you how many people (especially men) I’ve talked to over the years who begin dating after divorce for the sole purpose of finding “the one.” You know, the person who really will love them for the rest of their lives…
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Are Negative Thoughts Common After Divorce?
The answer you’re looking for about whether negative thoughts are common after divorce – and what you can do about them to feel better now.
Read More Yes, Homosexual Divorce Hurts Too (DUH!)
Even “nice” prejudices cause more harm than good. I’m sick and tired of all the divisiveness we’re subjected to every day here in the US. Our culture seems to thrive on the us vs. them mentality. We see it in the way people segregate themselves into groups with a strong loyalty that often transcends logic…
Read More When Co Parenting Is Impossible
All isn’t lost when co parenting is impossible. You do have other viable options for raising happy, healthy kids after divorce.
Read More Who Does Co-Parenting Benefit?
Who does co-parenting benefit? It’s more than just the kids.
Read More There’s A MAJOR Reason ‘The Divorce Diet’ Sounds Too Good To Be True
I know I’m not your mother, but you HAVE to eat. Even though my ex-husband and I knew divorcing was the best answer for resolving our issues, actually going through and getting over it was one of the most difficult experiences I have had. The transition was so painful I sometimes wondered if I would…
Read More Am I The Only One In WTF Mode?
In short, no. Here’s why and what you can do about it. Getting served with divorce papers out of the blue is without question a WTF moment. Seriously, how could you ever be prepared for it? Sure your marriage wasn’t perfect, but whose is? And what gives the person who promised they’d love you forever…
Read More How To Heal From Divorce? Stop Doing This
Not doing this one thing will change EVERYTHING! Your logical mind knows the fact that thousands of people survive divorce every year. However, the rest of you isn’t so sure you’ll be one of them. You’re facing too many changes, too many losses. You’re not sure if you have the strength to continue on. You’re…
Read More How Do I Know Things Are Going To Be Alright?
The first step is to choose to make them that way – no matter what. Horror. Destruction. Betrayal. Loss. Grief. Fear. Pain. Loneliness. Guilt. Rejection. Shock. Disbelief. Anger. These are just a few 1-word descriptions of divorce. Although they’re each powerful, none of these words evoke any positive thoughts. And that’s because they are all…
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